Comments on: 13 Ways To Make Your Spouse Hate Sex

By: CC

CC — Sun, 02 Oct 2011 06:03:44 +0000

I just want to be sure here; are we being cynical, sarcastic, etc. here?

I see some posts giving recommendations to “fix” the “problem” and some adding more “recommendations” to make sure your spouse hates sex with you.

To be sure, is this a website that actually promotes successful marriages?

By: Nat

Nat — Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:57:04 +0000

If I’m a feminized male I guess we can blame that on all the bitchy women in the world. And YES sex is a waste of time. I never been hot wired to sex, found that out after being married. Wife hates me for that but I really don’t care what she thinks. The door swings open for her to leave any time she wants. Shes still here so I can assume she enjoys the way our marriage worked out.

By: Living Personification

Living Personification — Fri, 29 Oct 2010 08:59:59 +0000

You mean, this was tongue-in-*cheek*? What a waste of *TIME*…!
I had hoped you could help me, sir. You’re obviously just another feminized male.

By: Mary

Mary — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 21:20:13 +0000

My husband would… he took a call – directly in the middle of things (if you know what I mean). Worse yet, it was from his mother!

By: Nat

Nat — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 00:12:38 +0000

Weve been married 44 years and about 30 years without sex. In my 40s I developed E/D and depression problems. I’ve tryed the little blue pills which for me made me sick. My wife was not excited by this development, but there was no way I could make her happy. Well over the years to listening to all complaining she did. I just came out and said I don’t love you anymore and you can buy a puppy for attention and companyonship. She just said I was a freak, fagot and sexless B@**%(!&d, We are in our mid 60s now and on a fixed income. We should separate but neither one of us would survive out on the stree alone. Ah! Its wonderful to be married, We just stay out of each others way she does her thing I do mine.

By: S. Templeton-Davis

S. Templeton-Davis — Sat, 22 May 2010 17:34:50 +0000

you too huh !!?? sux to b us !!

By: lynette

lynette — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 22:50:40 +0000

wow, what a list. late to the party (as usual). i wish any of these reasons were some of the reasons why i have not had sex with my husband in more than 10 years.

i could add a lot, but won’t…. all i will say is that anger is a desire-killer. treat your spouse with anger and criticism and yelling and cursing, throw in a little bullying and grabbing and some other stuff. and then get mad at her when she wants to talk about it, and about why there is no intimacy, as if she is being unreasonable.

anger kills desire.

By: Uschi

Uschi — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:52:43 +0000

Or have your husband or significant other not make love to you because of a fight a long time ago that he/she is still holding a grudge about without talking it out

By: newmom

newmom — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 14:24:56 +0000

Going along the same lines as #1, constantly making comments on how your partner doesn’t want to have sex anymore but not actually pursuing a heart felt conversation about it.

for new parents: Husbands getting frustrated b/c things what used to feel good to your wife now causes discomfort. Oh horrors, you might have to learn a new routine (#3) newsflash …. a females body (and I mean vagina) may be permanently altered by childbirth and she doesn’t even know what will feel good or not anymore. It’s frustrating for her as well. She might be dealing with some stuff that makes her feel really unsexy (like organ prolapse… which is actually pretty common). Some understanding would really make her feel a whole lot better about herself. It’s pretty upsetting and a little scary when your whole body acts and feels different.

By: chris

chris — Wed, 20 May 2009 13:42:05 +0000

adding to the list (since it’s almost too easy)
*Always wait until the other person suggests it’s time to have sex.
This way you aren’t responsible when you want to complain there hasn’t been enough.

*If foreplay doesn’t go the way you want, bail on the whole thing and go out for a cigarette.