Comments on: How To Spot And Defeat The Four Marriage Killers http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html Keep it simple. Make it better. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 03:15:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Pro-Marriage-Counselor http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-14343 Pro-Marriage-Counselor Thu, 15 Sep 2011 23:12:15 +0000 http://1326869540#comment-14343 Very nicely done presentation of Gottman's work that couples can really read and apply. I agree with Laurie too, don't feed those horses! Very nicely done presentation of Gottman’s work that couples can really read and apply.

I agree with Laurie too, don’t feed those horses!

]]> By: LoveInterruptedYuku http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-13676 LoveInterruptedYuku Mon, 06 Jun 2011 20:19:39 +0000 http://1326869540#comment-13676 I think these are the reasons my Lost Love seems so attractive... I think these are the reasons my Lost Love seems so attractive…

]]> By: Are you guilty of the marriage mistakes? | Simple Marriage http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-8209 Are you guilty of the marriage mistakes? | Simple Marriage Wed, 21 Jul 2010 16:10:25 +0000 http://1326869540#comment-8209 [...] written before about the marriage killers as well as the secret to a lasting marriage, but how the mistakes we make in marriage are addressed [...] [...] written before about the marriage killers as well as the secret to a lasting marriage, but how the mistakes we make in marriage are addressed [...]

]]> By: Things to Write Home About – 2/8/09 | Feels Like Home http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-6730 Things to Write Home About – 2/8/09 | Feels Like Home Sat, 27 Feb 2010 21:52:49 +0000 http://1326869540#comment-6730 [...] Mary Anne at Simple Marriage posted a warning about the four marriage killers [...] [...] Mary Anne at Simple Marriage posted a warning about the four marriage killers [...]

]]> By: Bev http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-3777 Bev Wed, 24 Jun 2009 15:54:46 +0000 http://1326869540#comment-3777 So Drs. John and Julie Gottman have a weekend couples workshop 5 times a year in Seattle for couples in crisis and those seeking enrichment too. The next one is this weekend (June 27 & 28) and two others this year in Oct & Dec. My honey & I attended about three years ago and it is WONDERFUL! www.gottman.com (The Gottman Institute) So Drs. John and Julie Gottman have a weekend couples workshop 5 times a year in Seattle for couples in crisis and those seeking enrichment too. The next one is this weekend (June 27 & 28) and two others this year in Oct & Dec. My honey & I attended about three years ago and it is WONDERFUL! http://www.gottman.com (The Gottman Institute)

]]> By: When Will He Ever Stop Doing…? http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-3773 When Will He Ever Stop Doing…? Wed, 24 Jun 2009 13:26:27 +0000 http://1326869540#comment-3773 [...] making no progress, you both may feel more frustrated, hurt or rejected. When this happens, the four horsemen of the apocalypse become ever more present, and humor and affection leave the [...] [...] making no progress, you both may feel more frustrated, hurt or rejected. When this happens, the four horsemen of the apocalypse become ever more present, and humor and affection leave the [...]

]]> By: Want A Better Marriage? Let's Start The Bidding | Simple Marriage http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-3015 Want A Better Marriage? Let's Start The Bidding | Simple Marriage Wed, 25 Mar 2009 21:09:57 +0000 http://1326869540#comment-3015 [...] contradictions, domineering, critical, and defensive reactivity. Turning against is the four horsemen of the apocalypse in full force - over time turning against will kill your [...] [...] contradictions, domineering, critical, and defensive reactivity. Turning against is the four horsemen of the apocalypse in full force – over time turning against will kill your [...]

]]> By: Coffee Brown http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-2853 Coffee Brown Tue, 10 Mar 2009 10:58:58 +0000 http://1326869540#comment-2853 I really appreciate this post. We're not even a year and i see the mistakes I'm making. It's even harder for us because we both live and work in different countries, and get to see each other for a month every 5 months. Thank you so much. Please keep these posts coming! There's so much people like me need to learn. I really appreciate this post. We’re not even a year and i see the mistakes I’m making. It’s even harder for us because we both live and work in different countries, and get to see each other for a month every 5 months. Thank you so much. Please keep these posts coming! There’s so much people like me need to learn.

]]> By: Are you making these marriage mistakes? | Simple Marriage http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-2850 Are you making these marriage mistakes? | Simple Marriage Mon, 09 Mar 2009 19:07:35 +0000 http://1326869540#comment-2850 [...] written before about the marriage killers as well as the secret to a lasting marriage, but how the mistakes we make in marriage are addressed [...] [...] written before about the marriage killers as well as the secret to a lasting marriage, but how the mistakes we make in marriage are addressed [...]

]]> By: How To Fight In Marriage: Start Well - End Well | Simple Marriage http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-2836 How To Fight In Marriage: Start Well - End Well | Simple Marriage Sat, 07 Mar 2009 14:11:33 +0000 http://1326869540#comment-2836 [...] weeks ago we took a look at the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, the relationship pattern identified by Dr. John Gottman as most likely to kill love and destroy a [...] [...] weeks ago we took a look at the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, the relationship pattern identified by Dr. John Gottman as most likely to kill love and destroy a [...]

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