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	<title>Comments on: How To Spot And Defeat The Four Marriage Killers</title>
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		<title>By: Are you guilty of the marriage mistakes? &#124; Simple Marriage</title>
		<link>http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-8209</link>
		<dc:creator>Are you guilty of the marriage mistakes? &#124; Simple Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 16:10:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] written before about the marriage killers as well as the secret to a lasting marriage, but how the mistakes we make in marriage are addressed [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Things to Write Home About &#8211; 2/8/09 &#124; Feels Like Home</title>
		<link>http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-6730</link>
		<dc:creator>Things to Write Home About &#8211; 2/8/09 &#124; Feels Like Home</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 21:52:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Mary Anne at Simple Marriage posted a warning about the four marriage killers [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Bev</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bev</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 15:54:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So Drs. John and Julie Gottman have a weekend couples workshop 5 times a year in Seattle for couples in crisis and those seeking enrichment too. The next one is this weekend (June 27 &amp; 28) and two others this year in Oct &amp; Dec. My honey &amp; I attended about three years ago and it is WONDERFUL! www.gottman.com (The Gottman Institute)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So Drs. John and Julie Gottman have a weekend couples workshop 5 times a year in Seattle for couples in crisis and those seeking enrichment too. The next one is this weekend (June 27 &amp; 28) and two others this year in Oct &amp; Dec. My honey &amp; I attended about three years ago and it is WONDERFUL! <a href="http://www.gottman.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.gottman.com</a> (The Gottman Institute)</p>
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		<title>By: When Will He Ever Stop Doing&#8230;?</title>
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		<dc:creator>When Will He Ever Stop Doing&#8230;?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 13:26:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] making no progress, you both may feel more frustrated, hurt or rejected. When this happens, the four horsemen of the apocalypse become ever more present, and humor and affection leave the [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] making no progress, you both may feel more frustrated, hurt or rejected. When this happens, the four horsemen of the apocalypse become ever more present, and humor and affection leave the [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Want A Better Marriage? Let's Start The Bidding &#124; Simple Marriage</title>
		<link>http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-3015</link>
		<dc:creator>Want A Better Marriage? Let's Start The Bidding &#124; Simple Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 21:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] contradictions, domineering, critical, and defensive reactivity. Turning against is the four horsemen of the apocalypse in full force - over time turning against will kill your [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] contradictions, domineering, critical, and defensive reactivity. Turning against is the four horsemen of the apocalypse in full force &#8211; over time turning against will kill your [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Coffee Brown</title>
		<link>http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-2853</link>
		<dc:creator>Coffee Brown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 10:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really appreciate this post. We&#039;re not even a year and i see the mistakes I&#039;m making. It&#039;s even harder for us because we both live and work in different countries, and get to see each other for a month every 5 months. Thank you so much. Please keep these posts coming! There&#039;s so much people like me need to learn.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really appreciate this post. We&#8217;re not even a year and i see the mistakes I&#8217;m making. It&#8217;s even harder for us because we both live and work in different countries, and get to see each other for a month every 5 months. Thank you so much. Please keep these posts coming! There&#8217;s so much people like me need to learn.</p>
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		<title>By: Are you making these marriage mistakes? &#124; Simple Marriage</title>
		<link>http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-2850</link>
		<dc:creator>Are you making these marriage mistakes? &#124; Simple Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 19:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] written before about the marriage killers as well as the secret to a lasting marriage, but how the mistakes we make in marriage are addressed [...]</description>
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		<title>By: How To Fight In Marriage: Start Well - End Well &#124; Simple Marriage</title>
		<link>http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-2836</link>
		<dc:creator>How To Fight In Marriage: Start Well - End Well &#124; Simple Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 14:11:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] weeks ago we took a look at the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, the relationship pattern identified by Dr. John Gottman as most likely to kill love and destroy a [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Flooding - Stop to Start &#124; Simple Marriage</title>
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		<dc:creator>Flooding - Stop to Start &#124; Simple Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 13:56:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] we STARTED the year focusing on what has to STOP by looking at the impact of the Four Horsemen, harsh start up, and body language on the state of our [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Complaining â€“ the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly &#124; Simple Marriage</title>
		<link>http://www.simplemarriage.net/how-to-spot-and-defeat-the-four-marriage-killers.html#comment-2796</link>
		<dc:creator>Complaining â€“ the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly &#124; Simple Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 17:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] has it been like to clearly identify yourself with the four horsemen? How much thought have you put into holding yourself accountable for your past with any of these [...]</description>
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