Comments on: How To Talk About Sex With Your Spouse

By: robkeck

robkeck — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 18:11:39 +0000

I think the challenge is not the talking about it part but the meaning that we gave to it.People are ashamed of talking about sex with their spouse is mainly because it is not seen as eating together,or riding a bike but something more secret and kind of difficult to say out loud.So first the meaning that we give to it must be corrected particularly among married couples.like we are not ashamed of asking our spouse to dine together.

By: april

april — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 04:55:20 +0000

Talking about sex while you’re having can increase the pleasure and enjoyment. There definitely needs to be discussion about sex while it is happening, especially if one partner feels uncomfortable or doesn’t feel like continuing what had been started. Tantric Sex is a beautiful form that embraces closeness and communication between partners. I definitely suggest that you read more about it and try it.

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By: Laurie

Laurie — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 23:08:34 +0000

I like your plan Matt!

By: Matt

Matt — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 22:55:41 +0000

I’ve always found it difficult to talk about sex with my wife, so it’s understandable that the conversation rarely happens. However, I think we must start talking (and engaging in it) more often or our marriage will not work out. So here is my plan. We have a “date night” scheduled in a couple weeks where the kids will be out of the house. Instead of the usual dinner + movie + rush home to get the kids in bed, I am going to tell my wife that we will be dining at home and that she has a homework assignment between now and then. I’m going to tell her that we will be talking about our sex lives that evening and she is to come up with questions and/or statements she wants to make to me (I don’t want this to be a one-way conversation). I plan on having us dress as if we were going to a nice restaurant but instead, I will be making a nice 3-4 course meal for the two us. During dinner we can have our usual conversations but after dinner we will get comfortable and I will begin by telling her how difficult this conversation is for me. Hopefully from there we will continue to ask each other our questions and grow closer together as a couple.

By: Lee

Lee — Sat, 20 Mar 2010 19:29:13 +0000

I can’t get my wife to talk about sex or fantasies, she says it great but sex the same way every time cannot be great after 16yrs.How can I get her to talk to me?

By: Marcellinus

Marcellinus — Tue, 19 May 2009 22:57:21 +0000

Yes, I truly agree with this statement: Sex is an important aspect of most every marriage.
The most important is understand each other. Communication between the couple, what I mean here..speak & discuss..play a major role to talk about sex topic

By: Brenda

Brenda — Thu, 07 May 2009 12:42:20 +0000

My bf and i talk about sex very openly. We usually do right after to say what we like and didn’t like. And its ALWAYS better the next time… one of these times we will run out of dislikes but we always like to try new things to keep us away from boredom, so we uaually always have some kind of comment!!