Comments on: Man Up/Woman Up: How To Have Curl Your Toes Sex http://www.simplemarriage.net/man-upwoman-up-how-to-have-curl-your-toes-sex.html Keep it simple. Make it better. Thu, 09 Feb 2012 03:12:10 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jack fr save marriage http://www.simplemarriage.net/man-upwoman-up-how-to-have-curl-your-toes-sex.html#comment-14082 Jack fr save marriage Wed, 03 Aug 2011 13:17:47 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=102#comment-14082 Really interesting discussion here. Btw, my wife like on top and me from behind :) Really interesting discussion here.
Btw, my wife like on top and me from behind :)

]]> By: Teen Kasia http://www.simplemarriage.net/man-upwoman-up-how-to-have-curl-your-toes-sex.html#comment-13558 Teen Kasia Mon, 16 May 2011 12:05:10 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=102#comment-13558 Loving the design, how did you get you blog to look like this. Plus its very well written. THANKS Loving the design, how did you get you blog to look like this. Plus its very well written. THANKS

]]> By: Greg Alan http://www.simplemarriage.net/man-upwoman-up-how-to-have-curl-your-toes-sex.html#comment-11640 Greg Alan Sat, 12 Feb 2011 07:04:47 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=102#comment-11640 This is what marriage is all about! having fun with each other :D Couples who are in marriage trouble should read this one! Also, check this site that could help improve more a <a href="http://www.savemarriagecourse.com/help-to-save-a-marriage/" rel="nofollow">couple marriage.</a> This is what marriage is all about! having fun with each other :D
Couples who are in marriage trouble should read this one!
Also, check this site that could help improve more a couple marriage.

]]> By: andrew http://www.simplemarriage.net/man-upwoman-up-how-to-have-curl-your-toes-sex.html#comment-11273 andrew Wed, 19 Jan 2011 01:36:05 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=102#comment-11273 what about the lights on what about the lights on

]]> By: Ron http://www.simplemarriage.net/man-upwoman-up-how-to-have-curl-your-toes-sex.html#comment-11226 Ron Thu, 13 Jan 2011 21:51:37 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=102#comment-11226 Interesting post & some GREAT comments. I am caregiver to a very sick wife who is no longer able to make love due to this illness. Before this we had an amazing sex life. I do long for those days but what is a husband to do. I do love my wife dearly & she honestly would do anything to change this situation. So I have had to accept a celibate life. May not have been my first choice in life but sometimes life throws us a real curve ball. All we can do is try to cope. Anyway this delima caused me to check out another website to try & learn how to cope. While I didn't find much in the way of coping I came across some amazing stuff. Much of it is downright heartbreaking. Most of these members have tried all the things that we are supposed to do make their spouse desire sex with them to no avail. They tried to massages, scented candles, doing more housework, date nights, more communication, you name it they tried it. The result was just more & more rejection from the people they love. Fact is that some people just have no libido. Doesn't make them a bad person but it does make them a bad match for somebody who has a normal sex drive. Many of these people refuse to do anything about it. They wont go to a doctor. They will in no way accomodate their spouse. As a matter of fact 99% of them blame the spouse with the normal sex drive. Not as in I don't want sex because you do this. But something is wrong with you for even wanting it. Many members stay in this situation because of kids, finances etc. Some have affairs, some just check out emotionally. So there really are people that can follow every step suggested here to no avail. There really are people who just have no desire for intimacy. Some even hate sex. What kills me about these situations are the number of people who knew they were like this going into the marriage but instead chose to decieve their future mate just to get what they wanted I E financial status, kids etc. Now you would think I was talking mostly about women here. NOT true. Of over 10,000 members 62% are females living in this situation. The result is feelings of neglect & destroyed feelings of self worth. Very sad. Interesting post & some GREAT comments. I am caregiver to a very sick wife who is no longer able to make love due to this illness. Before this we had an amazing sex life. I do long for those days but what is a husband to do. I do love my wife dearly & she honestly would do anything to change this situation. So I have had to accept a celibate life. May not have been my first choice in life but sometimes life throws us a real curve ball. All we can do is try to cope.

Anyway this delima caused me to check out another website to try & learn how to cope. While I didn’t find much in the way of coping I came across some amazing stuff. Much of it is downright heartbreaking. Most of these members have tried all the things that we are supposed to do make their spouse desire sex with them to no avail. They tried to massages, scented candles, doing more housework, date nights, more communication, you name it they tried it.

The result was just more & more rejection from the people they love. Fact is that some people just have no libido. Doesn’t make them a bad person but it does make them a bad match for somebody who has a normal sex drive. Many of these people refuse to do anything about it. They wont go to a doctor. They will in no way accomodate their spouse. As a matter of fact 99% of them blame the spouse with the normal sex drive. Not as in I don’t want sex because you do this. But something is wrong with you for even wanting it. Many members stay in this situation because of kids, finances etc. Some have affairs, some just check out emotionally.

So there really are people that can follow every step suggested here to no avail. There really are people who just have no desire for intimacy. Some even hate sex. What kills me about these situations are the number of people who knew they were like this going into the marriage but instead chose to decieve their future mate just to get what they wanted I E financial status, kids etc. Now you would think I was talking mostly about women here. NOT true. Of over 10,000 members 62% are females living in this situation. The result is feelings of neglect & destroyed feelings of self worth. Very sad.

]]> By: Cynthia http://www.simplemarriage.net/man-upwoman-up-how-to-have-curl-your-toes-sex.html#comment-11170 Cynthia Sat, 08 Jan 2011 04:14:43 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=102#comment-11170 I totally agree.... sex for women is overwhelmingly mental, whereas I think with men it's much more centered in the physicality of it... just the way our psyches are made up, not a dig at either sex. When a woman is "off" in her heart or mind, and I can SOOOOOO speak from experience here, any sort of angst or annoyance or ANY negative feeling toward the hubby/significant other is guaranteed to affect the bedroom behavior. If your sex life is dying, ladies... look inside. Confront your demons. Find out what you're angry or sad about. If it is him, you can't ignore it AND enjoy good healthy sex. My hub and I very nearly had a truly ugly ending recently but we've set out to talktalktalktalk and MAN OH MAN, releasing the demons has closed up the chasm between us. Hugging til relaxed is also huge... it's become a daily activity for us. With the angst, we couldn't even do that. Physical contact was a NO NO. Simple, innocent touch, at any time, and talking... definitely will help. Just my 16 cents' worth :) I totally agree…. sex for women is overwhelmingly mental, whereas I think with men it’s much more centered in the physicality of it… just the way our psyches are made up, not a dig at either sex. When a woman is “off” in her heart or mind, and I can SOOOOOO speak from experience here, any sort of angst or annoyance or ANY negative feeling toward the hubby/significant other is guaranteed to affect the bedroom behavior. If your sex life is dying, ladies… look inside. Confront your demons. Find out what you’re angry or sad about. If it is him, you can’t ignore it AND enjoy good healthy sex. My hub and I very nearly had a truly ugly ending recently but we’ve set out to talktalktalktalk and MAN OH MAN, releasing the demons has closed up the chasm between us. Hugging til relaxed is also huge… it’s become a daily activity for us. With the angst, we couldn’t even do that. Physical contact was a NO NO. Simple, innocent touch, at any time, and talking… definitely will help. Just my 16 cents’ worth :)

]]> By: Kitten http://www.simplemarriage.net/man-upwoman-up-how-to-have-curl-your-toes-sex.html#comment-11112 Kitten Sat, 01 Jan 2011 10:51:29 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=102#comment-11112 OMG!!!! Laurie, you are so right! I have never experienced this before my present relationship. It is absolutely the most beautiful experience I have ever had. It is SO sensual. And yes, it changes you. OMG!!!! Laurie, you are so right! I have never experienced this before my present relationship. It is absolutely the most beautiful experience I have ever had. It is SO sensual. And yes, it changes you.

]]> By: Lisa http://www.simplemarriage.net/man-upwoman-up-how-to-have-curl-your-toes-sex.html#comment-9499 Lisa Tue, 09 Nov 2010 18:41:33 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=102#comment-9499 I love the part about hugging until relaxed. I am going to try that one with my husband! I think sex defines a marriage and sexless marriages are, well, not healthy, and maybe not really marriages. I recently wrote an article on this topic I'd like to share. You can add this one to the list! http://escapefromrelationshiphell.com/how-to-get-your-sex-life-back.php Blessings, and thanks again for sharing! I love the part about hugging until relaxed. I am going to try that one with my husband!
I think sex defines a marriage and sexless marriages are, well, not healthy, and maybe not really marriages.
I recently wrote an article on this topic I’d like to share. You can add this one to the list!
http://escapefromrelationshiphell.com/how-to-get-your-sex-life-back.php

Blessings, and thanks again for sharing!

]]> By: Beverly http://www.simplemarriage.net/man-upwoman-up-how-to-have-curl-your-toes-sex.html#comment-9443 Beverly Wed, 03 Nov 2010 15:30:49 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=102#comment-9443 AMEN GIRL! Wonderfully said! Orgasm is the icing on the cake even though cake is great all the way through. I just found your blog and I think its wonderful. I'm 2 years into my second marriage and have just began to love and live the way it should be. We connect all day in small ways which leads to beautiful intimacy at night. I think when you touch, talk and REALLY look at each other when your out of the bedroom it makes you feel loved and wanted. It leads to some pretty fantastic fireworks in the bedroom too ;) AMEN GIRL! Wonderfully said! Orgasm is the icing on the cake even though cake is great all the way through.
I just found your blog and I think its wonderful. I’m 2 years into my second marriage and have just began to love and live the way it should be. We connect all day in small ways which leads to beautiful intimacy at night. I think when you touch, talk and REALLY look at each other when your out of the bedroom it makes you feel loved and wanted. It leads to some pretty fantastic fireworks in the bedroom too ;)

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