If there is one type of email I regularly receive, it’s an email from a Simple Marriage reader who has recently heard the words from their spouse (or said them to their spouse) “I’m not sure I’m in love with you anymore.”
This is a common occurrence in a lot of marriages today – but it doesn’t have to be the end of the marriage.
If you are currently involved in a marriage where one of both of you have stated something like this, you’re in the right place.
Blow up my marriage class is a radical paradigm shift in how to view your marriage going forward.
If you’re interested being part of this class, here’s what you need to do:
- Be willing to put off making any major relationship decisions (as in should I stay or leave) for at least 4 to 6 months.
- Start taking an honest look at yourself and your relationship.
- Participate in this 16 week Blow Up My Relationship Class.
- Work through the material that will be presented every 2 weeks and participate in an online discussion board (the beauty of this format is it allows you to work at your own pace, no calls to schedule or prearrange).
You can do this alone or with your spouse. Obviously, if both of you participate, the class can be even better for your relationship, but your spouse doesn’t have to if they don’t want.
In this class you’ll learn:
- How to create the best marriage from your strengths, not by looking at what’s wrong.
- How to see that it’s the relationship that’s the issue, not you or your spouse.
- Why you never want to lean on your spouse.
- How to create a great life and have your marriage be the icing on the cake.
- And, how to transform your sex life.
Thanks to the format of this class, I’ll come to you with all the material and information. Every other Monday there will be new material to read through and some work to complete. Since there are 2 weeks between each release of new material, there is plenty of time to follow along at your own pace.
As an added plus, each lesson will be available in two different formats. One will be via a pdf download, simply download the material and read through it at your leisure. The other will be a mp3 audio version of the lesson that you can download and listen to on your iPod (or other device of your choice), or even listen to it right from the webpage. Your choice.
To be clear, you are not signing up for marriage therapy, this is more like marriage consulting or marriage class.
What previous class members say:
This class has been like a pressure relief valve – so far – in our marriage – taking a step back, understanding the blame game, etc. takes some of the anger away. Counseling was not working for us at all – getting that third person out of the mix didn’t hurt either. ~ V.V.
The lessons have been eye openers for me on several occasions. The course has changed my perspective on conflict and its dynamics, and I have changed my behavior as a result. ~ M.Z.
For me, the final lesson pretty much summed up all that was/is going wrong with myself, my marriage and my life. Wow. I suddenly see very clearly where I’m taking the wrong turns. My whole life – my ideas for writing and business, my marriage, my sex life – had pretty much turned into “masturbation” – watching, doing things only in my mind, for myself, not “showing” anything to the world, avoiding rejection and risk.
“Penetrating the world” is a very powerful image for me and my way forward. Thanks. ~M.A.
I really appreciate the lesson material – it has given me a new way of looking at marriage. ~D.S.
I’ve found the class lessons to be personally insightful for me. I’m not sure if I am unique in undertaking this class without the participation or interest of my spouse, but I definitely have achieved personal growth regardless of his effort. I can really work on my marriage whole-heartedly without him. I’ve also learned that I can be a good mom and a good wife regardless of how my husband chooses to participate in the relationship. And for that, every dime of my time with you, and in this class, was well spent. ~ J.U.
If you are currently in therapy or contemplating therapy, no worries, this class can be a great addition to the process. And one question I’ve been asked several times, “Is this course religious based?” While I do mention God as the Creator and Designer of life and relationships a couple of times, this is not a religious based course. The principles covered are common in every relationship and marriage.
Blow Up My Marriage is also for couples who:
- are constantly fighting
- have experienced a betrayal via an emotional affair
- have a spouse caught up in pornography usage
- are in a monotonous marriage
- consider themselves a Nice Guy or Nice Girl
- are gridlocked on several issues in the relationship
Going through the rough times in marriage doesn’t have to be the end of the relationship. By looking at things in a radically different way, things can be much better than you ever thought.
Here’s to all marriage can become.
This 16 week class costs $297 (there is also a 3 payment plan option).
Click here to see the topic of each Module.
Click here to read what other class members have said.
Next session will happen in early 2012.
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