There have been a couple of common questions asked about this class.
Here’s the answers to the most common ones:
What is the schedule? Is there a certain time that I have to be in “class”? How much time will it take?
Every other week you will be able to download a written PDF lesson with each module’s material and some homework questions and activities to work through. The course takes place in a secure, members only site. There you will be able to interact with other class members, post your responses to each homework assignment, and read the posts from others in the class as well. I will respond and interact with every participant as the class unfolds. You can work at your own pace and log into the class forum and read and post any time. There is no set class schedule. It will probably take from about two to three hours total every couple of weeks for actual class participation.
You get to decide how much time you will spend applying the principles of Blow Up My Marriage in your intimate relationship.
Is Blow Up My Marriage still helpful if I have to take it solo since my spouse isn’t interested?
This class is tremendously beneficial taken solo or as a couple. Obviously, when both members of the marriage are involved, the class can be great for your relationship. But those who participate solo can still gain a great deal from this class. The better you understand how healthy, passionate relationships work and what it takes to create them, as well as the other forces naturally at work in every marriage, the more effective you will be creating the relationship you want going forward.
I assume that when it comes to the differences between men and women, you make some generalizations. Isn’t it dangerous to make generalizations which assume a certain gender is better at something than the other?
I understand the danger of generalizing, especially with something as complex and fluid (and politically and socially volatile) as gender and sexuality. I’m going to do it anyway. I completely understand that not all men are alike and not all women are alike. I understand that all situations are different. I understand that men and women can consciously swap roles. I understand that there are women who are more masculine than feminine and men who are more feminine than masculine. I understand that women can have male type brains (engineers) and men can have female type brains (decorators).
In spite of the prevailing philosophy that relationships should be 50/50, aspects of marriage fall on the male’s shoulders, and other aspects fall on the female. When each person operates from the best in themselves, they both get to experience something great together!
Blow Up My Marriage presents a radical paradigm shift in how to view your marriage. You will be encouraged to approach your relationship (and your life) head on by becoming more present, honest, and transparent.
Great marriages don’t happen by accident or luck. They are the result of people becoming conscious of how they are getting in their own way and discovering how to act with genuine love and integrity toward their spouse.
In just four months you can have the kind of amazing relationship you have always wanted. I warn you though, I won’t be easy on you. I have no problem being brutally honest. But honesty is not only the best policy – it’s the only way to experience something truly great!
