Comments on: Sex: From Good To Great http://www.simplemarriage.net/sex-from-good-to-great.html A better marriage by keeping it simple. Sun, 21 Mar 2010 00:26:26 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Natashaw6 http://www.simplemarriage.net/sex-from-good-to-great.html#comment-3352 Natashaw6 Sun, 10 May 2009 15:03:30 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=551#comment-3352 I need help, my husband and i have sex but i dont feel anything special, i feel no bond, it just feel like sex, than he asks me why im dead in bed, he hurts me most of the time, between my legs even when hes touching me, at times he would arouse me than il respond out of my own than i feel what is more than sex, im not even ready than he penetrate me and it hurts me inside, worst for me is that when i have my periods he still wants to have sex with me is there something wrong with me? I need help, my husband and i have sex but i dont feel anything special, i feel no bond, it just feel like sex, than he asks me why im dead in bed, he hurts me most of the time, between my legs even when hes touching me, at times he would arouse me than il respond out of my own than i feel what is more than sex, im not even ready than he penetrate me and it hurts me inside, worst for me is that when i have my periods he still wants to have sex with me is there something wrong with me?

]]> By: mike http://www.simplemarriage.net/sex-from-good-to-great.html#comment-1643 mike Fri, 03 Oct 2008 03:33:04 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=551#comment-1643 @Corey - Great article! I always knew the answer for myself, but the article made me think about it in detail. @Laurie - I am the similar to Laurie. For me sex has always primarily been about the connection. Release is secondary, @Corey – Great article! I always knew the answer for myself, but the article made me think about it in detail.

@Laurie – I am the similar to Laurie. For me sex has always primarily been about the connection. Release is secondary,

]]> By: Corey http://www.simplemarriage.net/sex-from-good-to-great.html#comment-1631 Corey Tue, 30 Sep 2008 21:50:04 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=551#comment-1631 @Chrissie- That article will be a tough one, but I'll give it a try. Let me know if there is more you are interested in reading either in this upcoming article or other ones. Thanks for your input. @Chrissie- That article will be a tough one, but I’ll give it a try. Let me know if there is more you are interested in reading either in this upcoming article or other ones. Thanks for your input.

]]> By: Chrissie http://www.simplemarriage.net/sex-from-good-to-great.html#comment-1630 Chrissie Tue, 30 Sep 2008 21:38:26 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=551#comment-1630 What if the answer to the question "What does sex mean to you" is simply pleasure and that's it? Once upon a time I use to be a sexual creature but at this point in my life I am indifferent to whether my husband and I have sex or not. How can I get back to that "sex is about connection and love" mindframe? That's what I need an article on! What if the answer to the question “What does sex mean to you” is simply pleasure and that’s it? Once upon a time I use to be a sexual creature but at this point in my life I am indifferent to whether my husband and I have sex or not. How can I get back to that “sex is about connection and love” mindframe? That’s what I need an article on!

]]> By: Corey http://www.simplemarriage.net/sex-from-good-to-great.html#comment-1616 Corey Mon, 29 Sep 2008 14:41:18 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=551#comment-1616 @Laurie- I'll expand on this post in the future. My only concern is the post would only be able to be read at night after the kids have been put to bed.:) @Laurie- I’ll expand on this post in the future. My only concern is the post would only be able to be read at night after the kids have been put to bed.:)

]]> By: Laurie http://www.simplemarriage.net/sex-from-good-to-great.html#comment-1615 Laurie Mon, 29 Sep 2008 14:24:20 +0000 http://www.simplemarriage.net/?p=551#comment-1615 Great post. You said "Let them experience all of you. And while you’re at it, seek to experience all of them." I would like for you to expand on this point. Give examples. How do you get there? For me, sex is about connection most of all. I can't seem to get enough connection with the hub or really anyone of the important people in my life. Not news to you. Sex is also a spiritual thing, at least the best times are. There have been times that sex felt like an act of worship. A release is good but secondary to the connection and the spiritual feelings I get when it's really rocking. Great post. You said “Let them experience all of you. And while you’re at it, seek to experience all of them.” I would like for you to expand on this point. Give examples. How do you get there?

For me, sex is about connection most of all. I can’t seem to get enough connection with the hub or really anyone of the important people in my life. Not news to you. Sex is also a spiritual thing, at least the best times are. There have been times that sex felt like an act of worship. A release is good but secondary to the connection and the spiritual feelings I get when it’s really rocking.

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