Bye Bye Television Update

For the month of August my family has done away with our TV. We have not turned it on once – except for the DVD my wife and I watched a couple of weekends ago. No shows, no cartoons, no football, and no PGA Championship – okay, so I watched a few holes online:).

Going into this experiment I was a little anxious over how I would spend my time without the TV. You see, I like to think I don’t watch too much, I can even play it off as if I really don’t watch it at all – but come to find out, I watch quite a bit more than I thought.

Our typical schedule (before this month) – cartoons for the kids in the morning, I’d turn on the tube in the afternoon while eating lunch and sometimes it wouldn’t turn off until late afternoon. The evenings would be spent as a family without the TV, but after the kids went to bed, it would be right back to the TV until we went to sleep.

Man that’s a lot.

Even worse, on the weekends the TV would be on almost the whole day. It may not be watched the entire time, but it’d be on.

Needless to say, going a month without the TV meant there would be a lot of time freed up – what would we do with all this time?

Today we are on day 17, and thus far it’s been great!

We’ve really only missed it a couple of times. In the mornings, breakfast is together either out on the back porch or in the kitchen. The kids play puzzles and with toys more. The evenings are pretty much the same as before, we play outside, work on the garden, or head to the park. But after the kids go to bed, my wife and I either work on a puzzle together, sit outside and talk, get little projects done, or spend our time in other pursuits (wink).

The first week of this experiment I noticed my stress level was a little higher – it seems that TV was a stress reliever for me. On top of that, my parents came to visit for a couple of days (I’m proud to say they joined in the experiment with us while they were there). Once we adjusted to life without TV, we’ve used the time to do other things.

Without the TV, we fold and put away the laundry as soon as it’s dry. We’ve decluttered and organized the kitchen and other parts of the house. We play more games with the kids. I’ve read 2 books and am almost finished with the 3rd. We talk and interact more. We dream. Plan. Play. Laugh. Dance.

Our journey is ongoing, how’s yours? Did you join us? You still can.

Share your journey in the comments below.

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How Do You Spend Your Time Compared To The National Average?

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My family is currently on day 5 with our no TV during the month of August experiment. Thus far, it’s freed up a great deal of time for us to do things as a family and get some projects done around the house. But I have also found that my stress level has been noticeably higher during this time – it seems that TV watching for me was a way to unwind and relax. Now I’m in search of other ways to spend my time, and relax.

The New York Times looked into the daily habits of thousands of Americans and rounded up the results in a beautiful chart in ten-minute increments (click on the graph to view the interactive graph).

Sleeping, eating, working and watch television take up 2/3s of our average day!

Which leads to this question: how do these findings reflect your typical day? Does this mirror how you spend your time? Or your family?

(Via Lifehacker)

Ask The Readers: How Do You Connect With Family And Friends?

The world we live in offers some unique opportunities as well as challenges. You can now know, almost instantly, about anything major going on in the world. You can board a plane and fly to wherever you’d  like to go. Plus, you can write a few words in a post, hit submit, and engage in a discussion with people from all over the country and world!

One of the best things technology has brought is the ability to keep in touch with family and friends. Last year while traveling in Scotland with my father, I could chat with my wife while riding on a bus from Edinburgh to St. Andrews. Plus, my kids regularly see and talk with my sister’s kids 350 miles away via Skype ‘s video chat.

Which brings me to this week’s question:

How do you stay connected with your family and friends?

Let us know in the comments.

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