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The Language Of Sex: A Guide To Becoming A Better Linguist

by Corey on September 7, 2008 · 3 comments

in Relationship Design, Sex and Intimacy

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There are many new readers who’ve joined us lately. Welcome.

The number one topic that brings people to Simple Marriages, according to the major search engines, continues to be sex. And since this is a big issue in most every marriage, or at least it’s an important part of most marriages, here’s a brief guide to all that I’ve written on the subject thus far (there’s more on the way).

One key to a happy and healthy marriage: keep your sex life alive.

Your sex life can often serve as a good barometer of your relationship. It can help both of you gauge the progress of your relationship. Sex is a language, and when you look at your sex life with your spouse, you can uncover what each of you are saying about the state of the marriage.

But the best part about the language of sex; you can become a better linguist with your spouse.

If you are looking to improve in this area of your marriage, here are a few links that cover this topic.

And to add a touch of spice

ABOUT THE WRITER
Corey is the editor of Simple Marriage as well as a licensed marriage & family therapist. While he has a Ph.D. in Family Therapy, he only occasionally likes to be called doctor. If you enjoyed this post, please subscribe so you don't miss any future posts.

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1 eric September 12, 2008 at 10:41 am

some of those links aren’t working.

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2 Corey September 12, 2008 at 1:01 pm

Sorry. They should be fixed now. Thanks for the heads up.

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3 Shula Jackson September 25, 2008 at 11:28 am

I smiled silently as I read thinking just surely someone’s going to make a remark on becoming a cunning linguist. Surely!

Sometimes talking to your spouse about sex…what you like, what you don’t like so much, what you’d like to try, what you really enjoyed and would like more of, how you want to find new ways to give them pleasure…sometimes that talking is more intimate than the actual sex.

Man up woman up indeed! It takes nerve and courage to be that honest. But is it worth it? Golly Moses yes!!

If we remain humble and teachable and playful, we can develop a real expertise in our spouse that continues to evolve and grow over our years together. There is no million dollar joy like finding those easter eggs of pleasure hidden within your spouse.

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