Comments on: Unlocking Your Sexual Potential

By: Virginia

Virginia — Sat, 16 Jul 2011 22:09:35 +0000

Oh…and lighten up people. There’s nothin shameful or demeaning about saying, “Do me baby!” or “I’m gonna do you like you ain’t never been done before!” : ) It’s hot and fun. And within the vast bounds of love…it is always “making love”. Embrace your sexual power, and never fear my dears. Roll and ramble and tussle and growl and laugh till you fall out of bed, then crawl entangled right across the floor and up the wall! Grrrrrrrrrrr. ; )

By: Virginia

Virginia — Sat, 16 Jul 2011 21:56:19 +0000

It isn’t at all true that men cannot experience full body and multiple orgasm. My partner frequently experiences this. Follow up on Tantric and Taoist practices and you will find that all men have this ability. It’s about awareness of our bodies’ energy and developing the skills to direct the energy flow. Multiple and full body orgasms for all!!! : )

By: Shannon O | Confessions of a Loving Wife

Shannon O | Confessions of a Loving Wife — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 22:25:29 +0000

Corey,

I mentioned this post and included a link to it here:

http://confessionsofalovingwife.com/2010/03/loving-marriage-communicating-intimacy-communication/

By: Paul Byerly

Paul Byerly — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 23:18:09 +0000

I think you are dead on about power – the best sex only occurs when we give our partner power over us. I think a lot of men cheat themselves, and their wife, by not letting her have power of him sexually. They are performing, they are doing, they are in control – and that means he is not getting the kind of mind blowing and heart connecting sex that he could have.

By: Scott

Scott — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 20:42:56 +0000

I am intrigued how the same words invoke such a wide variety of strong responses in different people.

Personally, I’m all for being done and for doing. I see exactly what you’re getting at, Corey, I agree totally. Mind-blowing sex happens when we get past the idea of equal “power sharing” and into the space of “power exchange,” where we can actually reach into each other’s sexual space. I love the idea of bringing your totally grown up sexual self to the marriage bed, getting completely “naked without shame,” which is the state for which we were originally created back in Genesis. Time to drop the fig leaves, so to speak. Of course getting to the place where you hold nothing back requires an atmosphere of complete mutual trust, where you feel safe and accepted as you are.

And you are so right about this being more than a physical act. It is a whole-being kind of thing: mental, emotional, physcial and spiritual.

Good stuff!!

By: Tony DiLorenzo - ONE Extraordinary Marriage

Tony DiLorenzo - ONE Extraordinary Marriage — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:16:40 +0000

I enjoy the fine art of doing and being done. Having had enough sex to say that is key for me. There are many times when Alisa and I make love. It’s amazing, but being done by my spouse is euphoric. At it’s core is the raw power that Alisa has to sexually satisfy both of us and it’s…I can’t even describe it.

As a husband there is nothing that excites me more than when Alisa initiates and when she takes control (doing me).

Great post Corey.

By: Annalea

Annalea — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:32:41 +0000

I love love love that the marriage bed is undefiled. It leaves so much room for a husband and wife to truly know and be known by one another. It means that married sex can be hot and wild, soft and tender, close and comfortable, raw and edgey, filled with fun and laughter, silent or loud.

Fantastic post Corey! I’ll be linking!

By: Laurie

Laurie — Thu, 11 Mar 2010 00:58:52 +0000

Woo Hoo Corey! Super post!
I agree that the older I get the better sex is! I love it when my hub takes me and throws me on the bed and says he wants me. I could stop it if I wanted but why would I want to? His animal-ness is intoxicating. There are times when I throw him on the bed too. It’s awesome!! There are different kinds of sex and this is one of them. I think it goes to what you said in a past post by asking what is your reason for having sex. Sometimes it’s for connection, release, tenderness, but sometimes it is for raw roaring romping!

I’ve come a long way baby! (And glad of it!)

By: Ian and Alicia Denchasy

Ian and Alicia Denchasy — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 23:52:41 +0000

This is a fantastic post! Would it be possible to reprint it on our website, with links back to your blog? We have a very similar goal. Ian and Alicia

By: Gina Parris

Gina Parris — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 21:03:10 +0000

I’m with Kathleen on the way the words made me stop and re-frame a bit- but what a great concept about growing up and truly embracing our internal sexual powers of love and resonance. Great post, except I’m so tired right now, I think I need to go back and review yesterday’s article about feeling sexy when I’m not!